I have so much to say about our Chinese visitors that I wanted another day to tell you more. Compulsory education in China goes through 8th grade. High school is not free and is very difficult to get into. This is because there are so many children; it's very competitive to get into high school. Additionally, students must take a high school entrance exam. Many high schools have dorms because students come from all over a province to attend high school. That was the case for most the of the principals who visited Indiana. They house at least half of their students, and on average, had 4000 students per high school. Even more amazing is that in the more rural areas, the principals said kids only go home a couple times a year. They asked many questions about American high schools and were very interested in how our teens fit in working and extra curricular activities. This is especially true for Chinese teens who go to school 6 days a week from 7:30 in the morning until 9:30 at night - and study for the college entrance exam - since only 20% of students are able to go to college. I would love to see a copy of questions from a college entrance exam, but have found only a couple questions on the internet.
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There were lessons galore, among them: Eating from a plate that one holds on their lap. |
I was thinking more about the dinner at my house. It was something I really wanted to do so that my guests could experience some American culture. They commented on how surprised they were with how polite my kids were. The kids visited with the principals but what they really liked was when they saw them taking people's plates and putting them in the dishwasher without being asked. I guess my training for manners was taking. Okay, we did have to remind them beforehand that neither of them touch a plate of food until every guest was servedand that it was appropriate for them to help clear dishes. Whew, it worked. The kids had fun though, too. They want to go to China. I watched my guests to see their expressions while learning about informal eating in an American home. In China, people go to restaurants to eat and for banquets. And the one who invites also pays. First, I demonstrated how to put a hotdog together. I was laughing because it was something we all take for granted, but they have never seen a hotdog. Some of the guests squirted more than the hotdog when using the ketchup and mustard. Another thing I found had to do with beverages. The entire time I was in China, I was always served cold soda, cold water, etc. I found out at my party that isn't true for the Chinese themselves. I had beer, lemonade, soda, and water...all cold. So I made a bath of warm water in my sink and as soon as I warmed up the beer, the men all drank. I'm not sure what they were toasting too but they were all smiles. It was a great time for them too since they had a chance to visit with each other; they only met a week ago. It was pretty funny when they saw me taking the twist off beer tops. They didn'tt know they were twist off so they thought I was Hercules.
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All of our Chinese guests tried a bit of everything, even the apple pie we served for desert. |
The favorite food of the day: Pickles. I had a pickle tray with all kinds of pickles...dill, gerkins, bread & butter. All gone!. I also had a tray with raw veggies. I was afraid that would go untouched as Joey, our Chinese language teacher, said that Asian people do not eat raw veggies. They were gone too, along with the potato chips. Everyone was polite and did try the food. I told them before eating that I would not be insulted if they tasted something and did not finish it. The dessert was apple pie. Chinese people do not like very sweet things but they all took a taste. Being the big planner I am, I have enough food for 2 more delegations but I would much rather have more than not enough. I expected that the group would take hamburgers over hotdogs or brats because those principals living in big cities have McDonald's but that was the food least taken. The hotdogs and brats were all gone. Pasta salad was the favorite salad. I am sure it had to do with noodles being in the salad.
Busy life is slowing down in Fishers. The band season is almost over, my Fulbright curriculum project is done, this delegation has come and gone. I can't believe it. It will be quite for just a bit then it is surgery season for the Reichanadters. John is having knee surgery before Thanksgiving, and I'm having foot surgery before Xmas, while Liz is having her tonsils out Dec. 27. Welcome to the Reichanadter Nursing Home!